Saturday, 14 May 2016

Bangalore Escorts | Independent Escorts in Bangalore |



Today’s Man is my debonair man for the day and we get incommensurable men on daily basis and we just wait for the connoisseur of men on daily basis and it’s just habitual for usIndependent escorts in Bangalore to live a life with many men of our choice and we are never content with one man in our life ! !

We Independent escorts in Bangalore are constantly writing in this site in order to empower our colleagues in the business of escorting and there are no institutions in this world for us escorts to get the confidence level in our line of activity asIndependent escorts in Bangalore.

We have been constantly haunted by this debauched society and we find solace only with our colleagues in this business and we do get good hearted Samaritans as our clients who are good humanitarian and benevolent gentlemen.

We Independent escorts in Bangalore  are generally   from regular back grounds in this society and have been never  been pushed into this trade of escorting but have volunteered our self in this line of escorting business  only with the lure of money and the quick money it offers.

We are aware of our career as an escort is short sighted and our career span is not more than 3 to 5 years just like a Mayfly which only lives to around 30 minutes with a maximum lifespan of a single 24 hour day.

We are tagged on the entry level itself which says best before 12.01.2022 and we understand the game of escorting and why we get paid so generously.

We Independent escorts in Bangalore are immersed in emptiness in our own line of activity and this isolation is expressed in our writings in this site and if ever I had not pursued a career as an escort in Bangalore I would never been writing here and the truth of me being an independent escort in Bangalore had triggered myself in writing endlessly in this site to empower our self and to create an awareness to this escorting business.

To most people who are been disillusioned with media and politically motivated news we escorts live a life fighting against all odds.

As an Independent escort in Bangalore we are addicted to Money and power and wealth and money buys the power we were craving and our relationship with men and our clients are mostly calculated and our services are on hourly basis.

Once a Man craves for a women he may be budgeted or may need the best and in our experience men will never spend the same money on the same women and his search is endless and will never stops and the habit of womanizing is addictive in nature.

We Independent escorts in Bangalore have never leaned on our past glorious life and never wanted to see our future and we live a life at this moment and we live a disciplined life of an escort and life is never about cursing the fate but to overcome the stumbles in life.

There can be no Mother who would like her daughter to be in the escorting business and we all Independent escorts in Bangalore have come from good family back ground who had embraced this escorting trade in lure of making more money and we do have a happy family behind.

Wednesday, 6 January 2016

Independent Escorts in Bangalore

Neighbors envy owners Pride is not our story and we are not in pride of our role as an escort in Bangalore but we pride in assisting the society. 








Life as an escort can be glamorous flashy alluring to those on the other side and it is not the same for us in the trade of escorting in Bangalore.

Neighbors envy owners Pride is not our story and we are not in pride of our role as an escort in Bangalore but we pride in assisting the society.

We are not a celebrity or rocking professionals  and yes we do earn a hands full of money and Raising our donations will benefit all of us in our team And it will help businesses too - raising the donations to an escort in Bangalore will pinch more money in a clients pockets but we escorts in Bangalore will pump back into the economy by spending it on goods and services and their community.

When ever we meet a new recruit in our team We encourage her not to get glamorized or allured with the money we make and make her understand not to get excited and fascinated with being an escort in Bangalore.

Being an escort in Bangalore for almost five years in this concern Independent escorts in Bangalore we do not pride our selves in being an escort and rather we ensure we live the life we aspired and we seek a secured future in our old age and our career as an escort in Bangalore is limited to very short period and our career is similar to that of an actress and that's why our charges are quite on the higher side.

For almost five years, I had written genuinely about my life and career as a Independent escorts in Bangalore on this web site I never intend to embellish or prettify my profession nor do I list the lavish gifts I receive or luxurious items I buy for myself or exaggerate the the lap of luxury I do live in and I avoid rhapsodizing about fascinating vacations or name-dropping hotels. I never disclose my real Identity and I don’t postulation every encounter ends in mind-blowing spasmodic orgasms or no orgasm at all ! ! That type of melodrama hype is really only good for sales intended people and not for us.

I utilize this space on my site to write uprightly and laboriously as I can as an escort in Bangalore about the savoir-faire of having sex for money, and i do it in honesty and I desperatly need that egress from my own mental and emotional paroxysm and to be ambiguously correct because the anecdote stories that usually reach the common audience are very often a a double-edged sword  and seeking happiness through a miraged fable and fairy tales of escorts living in luxurious lifestyle and Obsessed with such false stories lots of women spend their lives searching for that magic door.

This is the worst side in escorting and unless you are with the right agency this part of the world is similar to the below nightmarish dreams

Drug-addicted pimps
Mafia controlled escorting businesses.
Pimp-abused street escorts whose life is miserable and an escort is more or less noted for the slavish, feudal respect society have for her.

 I as an escort do be as condensed in nature and  While I often write about good things in escorting I personally enjoy, I would also share my constant fear of the most unlikely situation happening with the stranger and there is the law enforcment authorities and being practically being bete noire of our existence, comes in for a good deal of abuse.

We are not to blamed exclusively for the scares in the society and in fact we assist in bringing down the crimes against women and we ensure the lustful thoughts of a man is curbed and  a man is almost tamed after he encounters an escort.

The Society still desires and empahasis sexual desirability is a woman’s duty, and abundance of prosperity is the most important endorsement of accomplishment and achievement. A young woman who is alluring is a young woman who is dyanmic and , and that dynamism of power is bequeath in the form of Money.

I do get mails from Women who wanted to be escorts and that does mean they are power hungry or greedy for money and more defined and refined way to reflect this evolution of more women seeking an esort is the society recognition of women with the money she owns or the car or the house she lives.

Recognizing or diagnosing a women in the society with the value of money she owns or the life style she lives is not the correct metrics to value any gender for that matter.

Mother Therasa
Mahathma Gandhiji
Nelson Mandela

They all lived a life that was simplified.
They lived a life that was an example and owned literally nothing.

We are forced to do escorting for several reasons and from my experience and seeing my team mates experience I see young women entering this sordid  profession for the following reasons

Family Pressure and commitments
Personal and family debts
Laziness in exploring a professional career
Quick Money
Boy Friend deserted women
Carried away by the glittering Scenic false faced world.

I never saw a women in my entire career as an escort in Bangalore who does for the sake of fun and enjoyment and all of us here do it for survival and here in this trade of escorting it is survival of the fittest.

We try to grab our share of the bread and butter on daily basis and its cats and rats some days when it is dry.

When we women are constantly being judged with their sex appeal we try to make a logical solution to the same and we try to utilize the same with our own narcissistic desires.

Try thinking the other way when a man is focused only on his manliness and  nothing beyond that.
The result would be disastrous for any man to move forward with  any women who sees him with only lust and love.

Any thing that comes in excess is not good for any.

We women are never taught to be power hungry or career conscience people and in an orthodox country like India we women are bought up in a situation where we are taught only to be good home makers  and house wife's ! !

And Intrestingly we women are told over and over again that we earn a place in this world  being polished and well-grommet, with nice hair and a sleek figure.  But we live in a world where a woman’s worth is commensurate only with her sex appeal.and it is no wonder we  women are  compelled  to take that equation to our own selfish desirable  state.

We all women as escorts are also often very insecure, which I recognize because I was (and I am) insecure, too. When I first started working in as an escort in Bangalore , I thought my impulsion to be an escort is purely curiosity, but I see now that while the eagerness gave me bravura strength and courage, insecurity inside myself is taking over my self respect and confidence level is going down day by day i weather down in my age and  I was so highly self-critical as a young teenager and now I struggling with a unstable mind, both of which were so common among my team of escorts in Bangalore and  While I was sexually cognizant and savvy I was in my teen, after all  and could not stand the thought of any boy seeing my body. So naturally  I was not quite a born natural when it came to selling myself for sexual consumption, but entering escorting world in Bangalore quickly taught me that femininity is all pursuance of a desired acts and it became my career at which I was adept.


 We all women as escorts are also often very insecure, which I recognize because I was (and I am) insecure, too. When I first started working in as an escort in Bangalore , I thought my impulsion to be an escort is purely curiosity, but I see now that while the eagerness gave me bravura strength and courage, insecurity inside myself is taking over my self respect and confidence level is going down day by day i weather down in my age and  I was so highly self-critical as a young teenager and now I struggling with a unstable mind, both of which were so common among my team of escorts in Bangalore and  While I was sexually cognizant and savvy I was in my teen, after all  and could not stand the thought of any boy seeing my body. So naturally  I was not quite a born natural when it came to selling myself for sexual consumption, but entering escorting world in Bangalore quickly taught me that femininity is all pursuance of a desired acts and it became my career at which I was adept.

To be honest envying an escort is like 

Practically speaking, envying someone for prostituting is like grudging on some one who is eating in a posh restaurant  and to start an career as an escort in Bangalore there is no entry bar and you need not be a beauty queen and all that is necessary talent is required is to be street smart lady.

There is no entrance test
There is no age bar  ! !

I as a person never imagined a life to be going as an escort in Bangalore and I very well do understand from my teen that on my sight of any women

Am I prettier than her
Am I Sexually attractive than her ! !
And when i see a man going ahead of me without noticing me
I feel little set back on myself ! !

When the profession came where i had to measure my time and my services as an escort in providing sexual favors and I was very much conscience of what I am doing and how I am to move on  making the best of my ability in making the most out of my time and my limited skills in being a perfect partner to any sort of Male who is seeking a partner to seed his lustful desires.

Escorting is a myth and comes with lots of surprises and we as an escort are in the world of mythical people and we do meet men who are not what they pretend in their society.

We meet all kinds of men and we meet men who are

Good husbands
Good Business man
Spiritual Gurus
Political Masters

We understand their need and we as a women of desire know and have masted the art  luring any men and completing our task as consultants of sex and lust.

Escorting needs  some type of sexual aptitude, and a high sex drive or at least the willingness to jump headfirst into an erratic intimate relationship with a face less man,


Wednesday, 16 November 2011

Orgasm


How you "get"or achieve orgasm will depend on whether you are male or female, and also whether you are with a partner or not.

For solo individuals, touching genitalia in ways that feel best to you will generally lead to the easiest orgasms. Females have a clitoris, men have a penis, there is also the G-spot and the P-spot (see the related links below for more information about them).

With a partner - if you are a straight couple, engage in the normal procedure of intercourse. For males, achieving orgasm like this is fairly easy. For females, a little trickier. Try to get the male to use his penis or other parts to stimulate the places that you know feel good. Tell your partner what feels good to you, don't make them guess. Talking about it to each other can also help arouse you both.

If you have trouble achieving orgasm or experience pain during intercourse, see your health care professional to be sure there is no physical problem, as pain-free, enjoyable sex is the goal.

During sex you'll experience it just by having intercourse as long as there is plenty of foreplay and stimulation. The brain is a big part of helping achieve orgasm, it is good to think about what is happening and to imagine or fantasize what arouses you. Fantasy is normal and encouraged. This is why many people enjoy sexually explicit videos, etc. leading up to the sexual act.

During masturbation you should start slowly and "tease" yourself a bit, make your desires stronger by some start and stop movements. Women often start to rub their clitoris or inside their vagina, then move away from the clitoris and don't touch it directly again until you just can't stop yourself anymore. Then after a while you'll feel your muscles tighten and feel a tingly feeling in your tummy. So start going faster, then your muscles will tighten maybe twitch don't stop keep going. Then you'll feel an amazing sensation that is indescribable You may not be able to hear anything during your orgasm if you do it good. So if your not tired try to do it again.

Some "toys" to stimulate or vibrate are often preferred to manual stimulation. Some people use anything that vibrates, even the back of an old electric tooth brush. Or muscle vibrators or sex toys especially for the purpose (usually safer).

Males usually know how to do this pretty much instinctively from an early age.

Some female contributors have said:
I just finger myself either in the shower or bathroom or I sit naked on a chair and move my pelvis forward and back fast and I can feel a pumping sensation in my vagina but it gives me pleasure. I recommend watching porn while fingering that is what gives me great orgasms!
Sit on your bed naked rub your fingers or almost anything around your clitoris it feels so good you will be very happy afterward
Usually from masturbation.
When having sex with a man, try sqeezing your pelvic muscles. Not only will he love this as it increases the intensity on his penis but you will be able to feel everything a lot more. Also, whilst having sex trying rubbing your clitoris. I find rubbing in a circular motion is best but some like tapping or up and down. Also, dirty talk is a great way to orgasm. Although you may feel a bit silly at first it really turns both of you on. Try "I want you harder" or "This feels so good!" or "Faster" or "Slower"
Not everything works for every person, so try different things until you figure out what works for you. If you have never had one before it may be difficult to figure out what you are looking for. Generally, the muscles in the abdomen and legs will tense or twitch. You may feel like you need to pee or you may sweat a lot. If you are having a man do it for you, it is good to give direction until he does something that feels good to you. Many women enjoy receiving oral sex. If you can find a man who is open to giving it, it's definitely something you need to experience.








Relax and stimulate your clitoris or penis and fantasize. (Women often begin by gently stimulating their breasts).
Focus on your fantasies and keep them alive, as having an orgasm is NOT a purely physical matter.
Arousal and excitement should build up to the point where they involve growing tension which for a second or so becomes almost unbearable.
It peaks, you seem to go over over a threshold and the tension explodes into intensely pleasurable release.
There is often something ecstatic about a really powerful orgasm.
'Orgasm' is the term for the climax, 'crossing the threshold' and the release that follows. The basic elements of orgasm are the same for both sexes: arousal - almost unbearable 'tension' - climax - release.
Men usually ejaculate during release but with women this is much less common (and not necessary).


To have an orgasm (this is for women), use your middle finger on the hand you write with.
Move down from the belly-button, and when you feel the "bump"(clit), the long one right above your vagina, gently circle it.
For most it takes around 5-10 minutes to climax or orgasm.
Once again you have to relax! If you start to get really tense relax again, and just focus on your fantasy.

For a man, to reach an orgasm yourself, you hold your erect penis like a football. You move your hand up and down grasping your penis.
You foreskin should move.

Fantasize while you are doing this and it will happen faster.
When you start feeling the sensation, do it faster, you will soon reach an orgasm state and sperm will then come out.
Don't do these when you need to have a pee, it takes longer if there is pee in your system. Urinate before you start. Also, occasionally, you may wet yourself with the tension. Have fun!

One way is to take your penis and your hands, and rub your penis with both hands from the sides of your penis. (left and right sides).
In a man's case you have to grip the penis and rub or masturbate.

The male orgasm or Ejaculation is brought on by the pleasuring,aka masturbation of ones genitalia,the Penis or Testicles,stimulating them,rubbing the foreskin up and down on ones glans till you have a heavenly feel of exhiliration and the whole body shudders with that erotic exotic explosive feeling,emitting a cloudy white teaspoon of semen which contains the Male sperm to fertilize the females egg and produce a hopefully wanted offspring.

In the female its the rubbing of the Vagina inside and the Major Minor labia,Vulva and Clitoris till Orgasm or multiple Orgasms brought on by the hand,toys,penis,oral etc.
One way is to take your penis and your hands, and rub your penis with both hands from the sides of your penis. (left and right sides).
You can have an orgasm through sex or masturbation.
An orgasm is a climax of sexual pleasure which is then released making you feel good.
For a girl, rub the clitoris. when you feel that feeling, rub it harder, faster till you feel that your getting to your climax. Once you know you got it, use two or more fingers and put it in your vagina and go deeper till you feel.

I hump a really big pillow while watching porn. It works!
Depends whether you are a guy or a girl.
Stimulating the sensitive genitalia area in a way that feels good for you should do the trick.
Through sex or masturbation. During sex you'll experience it just by having sex. During masturbation you should start slowly and tease yourself start to rub your clit or stick your fingers up your vagina . Then after a while you'll feel your muscle tighten and feel a tingly feeling in your tummy. So start going faster then your muscles will tighten maybe twitch don't stop keep going . Then you'll feel an amazing sensation that is indescribable You may not be able tomhear anything during your orgasm if you do it good. So if your not tired try to do it again.:)
Masturbate or have sexual intercourse. It's important that the clitoris, which is right above your vagina, gets stimulated.
Orgasm is the result of masturbating. When you masturbate, you constantly rub your pubic area (girls=vagina, boys=penis) and think of (sexual) things that make your pubic area "shake" or move. When you do it for an amount of time (depends on each person) you have orgasm when your privates move uncontrollably and you have quenched the desire for sex for your body.
A:
Orgasms do come from masturbation by male or female but also come from sexual intercourse also. Orgasm is the point of no return in the act of sex, it usually comes with ejaculation of fluids, semen in the case of a male.
put your middle finger on ur belly then put lower it till u get to ur vag. then circle it, then you get faster.
play phone sex or txt sex
obviously fingers and sex toys, but i use a shower head on full, i turn it on, open my legs and get comfy in the bath, even your bf can watch or help you by touching you. then use in a circular motion over your clit. start off slow and then make the circular motion go the other way, quicker up the speed and bring the shower head closer. widen your legs and make a humping action if needed- you WILL orgasm
Electric toothbrush, vibrators, dildos, rubbing like pillows, towels, sides of beds...(I dont use that one, I heard it works, though!) etc.. Showerheads...running bath water..

well, you could use a shower head, wen u take ur next shower take the shower head off, then turn it on turbo and not to hot, lay down, spread ur legs, find ur clit and lean on one elbow while ur getting busy with the water, your legs will shake and u'll breath heavy trust me i do it EVERYDAY! u know its wrking wen u are so shaky you have to stop to get a breather... you'll crave it after tht!

For most women two areas easily produce the best orgasms, first and the easiest is the "Clitoral stimulation" (care must be taken not to overwork this organ, it can become sore and tender). Second, the "Vagina and famed G-spot", women can have single or multiple orgasms.
practice or more time between each one
Vaginal or clitoral orgasms
make ur guy last longer by thinkin bout other stuff
You can have an orgasm in response to masturbating or through sex. It's a nerve response that sends messages to your brain.
WOMEN: take the middle finger of the hand you write with and slowly move it down from your belly button, when you feel the "bump" slighty over the vagina slowly rub hard in cirlces, this takes about 5-10 minutes for most women. when you start to feel like you NEED MORE, go faster and harder then for about 3 seconds its almost unbearable, you center stiffens and you may urinate or squirt without feeling.

MEN: hold your penis like a football, and kind of shake it up and down keep doing so (try tickling your penis) untill semen comes out when the semen stops u may start again its only possible for 50 orgasms a day.


for a girl: you can rub down there in a circle rotation on the good spot if you know what I'm talking about, or you cant put a banana there and move it up and down to stimulate a orgasm to come, or my favorite is you can hump a pillow and there are many more ways.

its when during sex, or masturbation when you climax. it is the most pleasure. men can do about once a day, females up to 5 or 6 times
Well basically, each woman has different spots which cause orgasm
The Clit
- Just above the vigina
- This was made for pleasure!
- This is the normal place for orgasm, simply rub fast from side to side!
- But if this seems like to much work, all you do is buy a vibrator
- place on the clit and enjoy...
- If you feel uncomftable buying one, a old electric tooth brush will do

Effects of a orgasm
Your muscles will tense
Moaning and sounds
Squiting may happen
You may get to excited and have to move the vibrator, this will happen at the first time


Males and females achieve orgasms differently...
Orgasm is this unbelievably great feeling that comes after prolonged sexual activity, but it needs to build to a sufficient level. I would assume you haven't had sex yet, so you should do a couple of searches on masturbation or ask a few friends.

When you have your first orgasm, you will know it, and you'll do it again really soon.

Assuming you're a guy, just do something to your penis that feels good and keep doing it for longer than you probably want to and it will blow your mind. That's clue #1.

Oh yeah, and try really hard to remember this "first orgasm" stuff when it's happening - it's seriously important stuff that you only get to experience once, sort of the ultimate "first kiss."

It really depends on the girl. Some girls don't like to moan others do. Usually if a guy is in deep enough or going fast enough or making their clit feel good then a girl would most likely have an orgasm
Provide gentle stimulation on the head of his penis in a rhythmical way.
This will provide the male with feeling of pleasure and bliss.

Repeat until his arousal reaches peak point - after that he will achieve an orgasm, ejaculating sperm and going trough feeling of overwhelming arousal and pleasure.

When sexual excitement builds up and reaches a peak a person might experience an orgasm, also called a climax, or 'coming'. The sexual excitement might start from someone masturbating on their own, or through kissing, masturbating or having sex with another person.
Sexual excitement usually grows gradually and a person feels more and more pleasure and a kind of exciting tension. All the feelings of tension then disappear when the orgasm happens, and the person experiences feelings of intense pleasure. The feeling can be so strong that a person might not be able to see, or hear or think about anything for a moment. They might even groan and call out with the pleasure. Orgasms usually last only a few seconds but the feelings might last a lot longer.
When a man has an orgasm he ejaculates. This means that sperm mixed with semen comes out of the end of his penis in a sticky white fluid. After a man has ejaculated he loses his erection and usually needs to stop for a while. When a woman has an orgasm, her vagina often becomes very wet, but she can continue being sexually aroused as long as she likes. Some women can experience more than one orgasm without stopping.
If a person doesn't have an orgasm, it doesn't mean anything is wrong. In fact, worrying about reaching an orgasm or being nervous is quite likely to make it hard for a person to relax enough to have one.

There are two basic types of orgasms, which are the clitoral orgasm and the vaginal orgasm. But orgasms don't stop at simply one stimulation or another. There are variety of orgasms women experience through a variety of different stimulation techniques.
The Clitoral Orgasm
This is the most common and easiest of the orgasms to achieve for most women, as the stimulation is quite intense and there is less need to be completely relaxed for it to work. This is also the reason why a lot of women can only have an orgasm through the stimulation of the clitoris.

The Vaginal Orgasm
This occurs with the G-spot or the sensitive vaginal walls are stimulated. These orgasms can range in intensity depending upon the stimulation used.
Pressure Orgasms
This orgasm comes from indirect pressure. This is not to be confused with rubbing or caressing an area that is sensitive to stimulation. This can occur from simply rocking back and forth to squeezing your legs together.
Tension Orgasms
This type of orgasm occurs from direct, intense stimulation. This usually involves your body being tense and typically holding your breathe. Tension orgasms are the most common among women. This orgasms are often referred to as peak orgasms due to the intensity of building up to the orgasm followed by a sudden release that explodes in pleasure. It is like waves crashing against the rocks on a beach.
Relaxation Orgasms
An orgasm can be achieved by simply relaxing during sexual stimulation. As you continue to relax and release all tension, this orgasm sneaks up on you. It is also referred to as valley orgasms. It is like laying on a sandy beach and the water gently rushing over you.
Grafenburg Spot (G-Spot) Orgasms
Many women agree that the orgasms achieved by stimulating the G-Spot feels different from the orgasms achieved through clitoral stimulation. Some will argue that this orgasm is better than any other.

Multiple Orgasms
Multiple orgasms are the aftershock of an intense orgasm. They come in waves of steady bursts that heighten pleasure. Some women can have up to 20 to 30 orgasms in one session. One of the downsides to multiple orgasms is that many women (and men) have anxiety about whether they can achieve multiple orgasms. By stressing about having one, you take away from the optimal pleasure that would help you achieve multiple orgasms. The key is not to think about it. Stop focusing so much on having them and simply focus on enjoying yourself and/or your partner.
Combination Orgasms
This occurs when several areas are stimulated simultaneously, causing a variety of different orgasms. Combination or blended orgasms are also achieved when a variety of orgasms occur during one session. This allows all of your senses to open up when the clitoris and vagina is stimulated, along with the pubococcygeus muscle (PC muscle) contractions, and pelvic thrusts cause a variety of different orgasms to occur.
Fantasy Orgasms
Although not as common, a few women have achieve orgasms through mental stimulation, such as fantasies. Some women can simply think about a fantasy or have a dream in their sleep and be able to achieve a type of orgasms. Many argue whether or not these are valid orgasms. Some people even believe that these would be lesser orgasms. Whether valid or not, they have still been known to occur by simply fantasizing.

There are five places you can reach orgasm with:

Clitoris
Vaginal entrance
G-spot
Cervix
Anus

Clitoris is the most intense and easiest to reach. Just rub it until you can't feel your legs. =) It helps to rotate between rubbing vertically, horizontally, circularly to the left, then to the right. Keep going till it hurts to touch it.

Vaginal entrance is hard to do by yourself. It's best to have a big penis to slide in and out of it. Warming lubricants are best for this one.

G-spot is the best, in my opinion. It's hard to locate - think of it as the other end of your clit. It's most easily located in sex when entering from the rear, such as doggy style. Those positions set everything at the optimum angle for gaining g-spot orgasm.

Cervix is best left for a second or third time through, as it can be too intense, even to the point of pain if not done properly. This is only gained through really deep penetration.

Anal is intense and fairly easily reached, but is too painful and/or awkward for some people. Don't feel bad if it's not for you.

If this doesn't work, try two or three at the same time, such as being penetrated deeply with long strokes from the back while rubbing your own clit.
one word, "endurance"
the longer you are stimulated without orgasm the harder the orgasm will be.
Rub something against it.
That is called masturbation and basically involves playing with your sex organs.


Reaching an Orgasm

The key to reaching an orgasm for a female is to totally relax and enjoy yourself with him.
For some people you can masterbate by rubbing Your penis up and down also it helps if you fantisize about Breasts and what not this answer depends if your a male or female
Masturbation
A dick, finger or vibrator

by the man doing work. amen
To have an Orgasm he needs to Masturbate. Stimulating the Penis will make it erect, continuing will end in orgasm and maybe ejaculation, depending on how far into Puberty he is.
For yourself: relax.

For your partner: listen to their noises. Each person is different, so try to figure out what feels good to them. Once you two learn each other's bodies, orgasms will become easier and more frequent. Also, don't be afraid to talk about it.
females recieves orgasms when a penis is entered into the vagina, she will recieve a moment of great pleasure and excitemnt in sexual activity(a dick enter's the vagina moves about it,the woman recieves a great feeling and screams a bit)-that is an orgasm x
Stroke and rub your vagina and especially the clit and labia. Nibble and pinch lightly on the nipples. DON'T start with putting anything inside. That is not necessary to make a woman come and actually feels better after the first orgasm. They only do that in porn and that is not real life.

what i always do is get a pile of cushions, go on and put on a really loud video. then place a hairbrush under the first pillow, the handle sticking up, when the sounds start, hump your pile. this always works for me, i love it. my fav video is bent over the desk

You 1) stick your tongue on her clit and 2) bang her till she screams! Then you have acomplished your goal :)
how girls orgasm it preety easy.....you can also do it your self or with your lover....we gurls have "g-spots" so when you add pressure to it fills up with fluid so you have a feeling you really need to pee so when you have this feeling you have to push( and it feels so good with it flowing out of you.)(it will get messy though if you squrt like me...omg i remeber when i hit the wall a couple feet way from me)
A good way is to try to hold it off a little bit, but not too much or else you will lose it entirely. And do Kegel-exercises.
There are several ways to orgasm better. I assume this question was asked by a woman because men usually don't have a problem with this. 1) Learn to do Kegel exercises and do them often. 2) Experimenting while masterbating is the best way to learn your body and what you like best. Get over any hangups you have about it and do it, with and without toys, and often. 3) Once you know what you like and don't like, communicate with your partner and tell them what you want. If you are having trouble with orgasms during intercourse, ask your partner for oral on you until you orgasm, and then go to the intercourse. All three steps are crucial and required to improve orgasm. Also, if you and your lover read sex manuals together and can play, that helps too.
== Answer == Relax and enjoy, don't worry about having an orgasm and you probably will.
If your a boy you run your hand up and down your penis.

Women usually rub their genitals on the outside and especially the clitoris.
By having a SHOWer.....
Use a dildo
a man sticks his head nice and hard in the vagina and then starts to lick it until it feels good
Hold out for as long as humanly possible. If you start to feel tingling, try to control it and hold back until you can't anymore.
get comfortable on your bed and explore your female parts gently with your fingers, find the spot that feels really good when you stimulate it, and massage it for awhile. You will find out that there is a female orgasm in there and it will come out.
"Best" means different things to different people. Therefore, you have to find out what feels best for you. There is no universal answer for this kind of question.
finger urslef for a long time til u squirt After having a orgasm by fingering yourself for instance go for the G-spot. If it works tha orgasms keep coming as long as you put pressure on it.
Jacking off
== Answer == Rub a dub dub.

Not very complicated, unless you have emotional blockage or sexuality issues.

finger urself for a long time and squirt as much as u can it will hurt but after that its goin to be the best thing u ever felt
It depends whether you mean through masturbation or sex? A lot of people cant orgasm from sex, but they can from masturbation and foreplay. Best way is practice just on yourself to find out which bits are most sensitive. try rubbing little circles over he top of the clit. once you learn how you like it then its easier to initiate sex to make you orgasm too
Stroking, rubbing the clitoris and labia and vulva usually do the trick.
Well, there are many options:
1) Get a boy/girl-friend that knows how to make you orgasm.
2) Buy a vibrator. These things can make almost every girl orgasm :>
3) Use your fingers, dildo or another object. Then play with your vagina, clitoris, and maybe other parts of your body. See what gives you pleasure and get better at it.
You can also try using shower to get pleasure...
that depends on the woman but typically a store bought (like at walmart) vibrator will really help. that and some serious finger action at the same time usually does the trick another thing to remember is stress or the inability to feel relaxed really reeks havoc on the ability to peak. normally feels good.
inserting the penis into the vagina rapidly
Touch yourself
Down there
Tickle yourself
It will feel good
thats right
Oh
Get a boyfriend

1. get naked
2. take your little guy and get a hard on
3. take your hand over your hard guy and start going up and down
4. you will feel something after you keep going don't stop
5. you will orgasm and sperm will come out
6. clean it up and do it again later

it sounds weird but if you eat lots of carbo hydrates before sex it ensures orgasms to last longer!!
By stimulationg the clitoris through either directly rubing it or aplying subtle pressure to it -what ever feels best. Be passionate, naughty - a lot of a girls sexual pleasures come in her brain activity. You can indeed get her a bit wet just by doing this, then, start by maybe tease her clit by playing with it with your finger, be kind of fast, don't do this for a long time(at first). Then, move your finger down into her vagina in one long motion, getting your finger wet with her vaginal mucus and start to rub her clit (try to keep it wet) up and down, side to side, and/or in circular motions. Pay attention to her reactions, like muscles flexing, maybe she starts to breathe harder, maybe she will let out little moans. See what she likes most and kind of experiment with her clit/vagina.

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Every female is different. One thing they seem to have in common, is that they need both mental and physical stimulation to even be turned on. One word I cant stress enough is FOREPLAY . Touching, kissing, licking etc. Take your time. Also, most females cant reach orgasm through insertion alone. They need clitoral stimulation whether its by a partner or themselves. They also need to be comfortable, which is the whole mental thing. As you get to know each other, your chances of her achieving orgasm will increase. Good Luck!
slowly rub your vagina in a circular motion. once this has been done for 5-10 min. insert your fingers slowly into your vagina. then you pretend as if your fingers a penis and put it in and take it out
finger yourself down there or use a sex toy
You orgasm during sex
with clitoris stimulation
watch...
porn...
lesbian...
porn...
it doesnt matter if your a boy or not, everyone thinks lesbian sex is HOT!
plain and simple, masterbate or have sex.
Masturbate or have sex.
Ignore the last answer, to put your fist inside a woman's/girls vagina is uncomfortable for her and could hurt her. The best way to give a woman/girl an orgasm is to give lots of foreplay, kissing, hugging...playing with her tits, gently. Rubbing and gently squeezing her nipples, sucking her nipples...then move down and do the same to her clitoris. You will know when she is having/or had an orgasm and she will probably ask you to insert your penis into her vagina, so she can finish her orgasm with a sense that she will feel that you have made love to her.
Having a quick orgasm (or any orgasm for that matter) usually relies on two things. The first is physical stimulation of the genital area. For women, that would be the labia majora and labia minora (inner and outer lips surrounding the vagina), the vagina itself and the clitoris. For men, it's the glans (head) of the penis and the surrounding tissue, especially on the underside (the perineum). When these areas are stimulated by rubbing, either by hand, mouth or through penetrative intercourse is the easiest way to orgasm.

However, the second, more important aspect of "coming" quickly depends on the body's largest sex organ; your brain. If you're stressed, feeling inhibited in any way (body issues, nervous, shy, etc.), don't like the person you're with, it will be hard to orgasm, and almost impossible to do so quickly.

The answer to a quick orgasm lies with being comfortable. Being comfortable being naked, enjoying the person you are with, comfortable with your sexuality, being comfortable with what turns you on and focusing on those things. It's about letting go completely and enjoying the moment without any distractions. You can do it, if you give yourself permission to do so.
Try oral sex or sticking your fingers in her vagina. If that does not work try sticking your penis in her. I presonally think oral sex works faster. I like it when my boyfriend sucks and kisses my vagina and clitoris. But ask her what she likes. It probably would be oral sex oh and try sucking on her breast I love that and make sure you rub, kiss,and lick her ALOT!

I like it when my boyfriend sticks his fingers in my vagina it works fast but also the sucking works to. sucking feels better.
If a person stimulates or has someone else stimulate the sexual organs especially the head of the penis in the case of a man or the clitoris in the case of a woman then eventually in most instances orgasm will take place.
Women orgasm from their vagina men orgasm from their penis.
I would also like to know the awnser to this.

Stimulate the anus before and during the orgasm. Both female and males report more intense orgasms while the anus is played with, either fingers or an object such as a carrot or etc.
== Answer == Have your partner give you oral sex while they have one finger in your anus and one finger in your vagina. == Answer == Have your partner give you oral while putting one finger in your anus and the other in your vagina.
Get aroused. Whatever turns you on.
ride on them non stop
Lay back on there bed And rub there clit
in circular motions or side to side
it might take some girls a while
then they start to move
and rub really fast and get out of breathe
some turn red and some moan
For some women its very easy to orgasm. For some its a lot harder. Stimulation of the g spot and clitoris are key. From my experience some girls orgasm in minutes but the one im currently sexually active with it takes a lot to get her to orgasm. I must have full penetration and steady pace and must be constantly rubbing her clit to get her to climax. But to reach orgasm you have to stimulate those god spots :)
the stimulation of a penis inserting your vagina can make you reach and orgasm. or you can rub your clitoris in circles to help you get aroused and then you might reach an orgasm that way. One other way would be to fold a pillow in half and sit on it, moving back and forth.
Through their penis when they cant hold there semen any longer "They basically explode (ejaculate)"
I only know the male way to get a powerful orgasm and not the women. The mens way is is to do the start and stop way were you either masturbate or penetrate the women till you feel like your going to ejaculate then stop and wait for a while the proceed this process a couple of times then when you feel like the time is right, let it go and you will have a very powerful orgasm ( depending in how many times you started and stopped).
this may sound wierd but they way i have mine and i come in about a minute, is put ur rite hand facing down just below your vagina nd your left hand over it with your legs squeezed tight together and rub up and down
Ok. First turn the woman on well by finding her own personal hot spots. NowAfter this keep going with oral and manual stimulation. Proceed with SEX!!! And use your penis to make her orgasm multiple times while alternating from foreplay to sex and repeat process afer each orgasm.
Generally the very basics are:
For most women two areas easily produce the best orgasms, first and the easiest is the "Clitoral stimulation" (care must be taken not to overwork this organ, it can become sore and tender). Second, the "Vagina and famed G-spot", women can have single or multiple orgasms.
the Feeling U Have Befor You Burst Sperm Is A Male Orgasm
Really there is no way. Everyone is differant. There are many differant ways. For men it is simple, but for women it can be a bit harder.
1. Get the finger beside your thumb and place it on your clitors. That is just at the top of your vagina. Now move your finger slowly to the right or left. (Only ot your first knuckle) now move it faster and faster, back and forth. You should reach an orgasm in about 5 minutes.
hope this was help!
Just your hand works amazingly for girls maybe an electric toothbrush or a vibrator. For men your hand works
hold in everything for a long time and then let loose
hitting thou G-spot
man or woman?
Well, being manipulated of course... Its not that hard.
keep the object finger penis w.e u r using in while ur having a orgasm and ignore it. last alot longer
All guys are different...age doesn't change that, but for most of us we orgasm through rapid strokes during masturbation.

Remember that, in many respects, your maid's orgasm depends upon her emotions and feelings. It is possible to find advice to stimulate different spots of her body in internet... But don't forget about her personality! Try to create a romantic, sentimental atmosphere around her! Her eyes and her soul are more important for orgasm than your sexual behaviour!
Touch her EVERYWHERE.
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You touch, rub, feel, suck, lick, and use sex toys on her clitoris.
stimulate clitorus
The Best way for a guy to have an orgasm is pretty simple. Masturbation is the easiest, most convenient way to experience and orgasm.
== Answer == By stimulation of the clitoris, which causes vaginal contractions and a wonderful tingly feeling all over the body. But remember the orgasm is better when not the result of just stimulation of the clitoris, there are many spots on a woman's body that can cause arosal! Such as the neck, thighs, toes, ear lobes, lips, thighs etc. An orgasm is a very intense experience and some woman can experience orgams without the stimualtion of the clitoris at all - or it is too intense touching it directly. It is all dependent on the woman all one has to do is a little bit of reaserch once you find out where women have the most nerve endingds youve hit the jackpot. It ca also happen after intense g-spot stimulation and if the woman has strong muscles and knows how to position herself.

There a several ways a girl can reach orgasm. One is fisting or fingering. To do this method, 1)gently rub your vagina with salive or water. If you're a lesbian, you can have your partner lick your pussy. 2) make your hand flat or in a cup shape.3) insert your hand into pussy, twisting your hand back and forth until it's completely inside the vagina.4)find the g-spot.if you don't know where that is, go to .5)rub this area continuously, maybe even push it some. This should let you reach orgasm. or
1)fist yourself intil you can feel the end of your vaginal wall
2)grab it and pull onit(or you could rub it if you want a more subtle orgasm)
Generally with foreplay and/or stimulation, (assuming this is with a partner).
Orgasms for women
It happens at the peak of her arousal, a series of involuntary rhythmic rapid muscle contractions and spasms that start in the pelvic area and can spread to other parts of the body where muscles tighten, vaginal fluids enhance and your breathing quickens and intense tingling ensues. For most women two areas easily produce the best orgasms, first and the easiest is the "Clitoral stimulation" (care must be taken not to overwork this organ, it can become sore and tender). Second, the "Vagina and famed G-spot", women can have single or multiple orgasms.
Giving orgasms can be achieved in various ways, in most cases Foreplay is a must, gentle fingers and a educated tongue, massages, endearing words and/or dirty talk, for some porn movies, you must remember all women are different and want the things that please them, learn and know what they are, then use some or all of these to heighten her Libido to give the "Orgasm" she desires.
For Men:
First, Don't be in a hurry, go slow.
Men for the most part are logical by nature, most become aroused by site, sounds and fragrance, learn what arouses him in these areas and your well on your way for setting the mood.
Nakedness, teasing and kissing triggers his testosterone creating his sex drive, men's erogenous zones are generally in the groin and pelvic area, kissing, fondling, caressing and oral activities in these areas will heighten his passion and if you do more then one of these at a time it becomes "Ultra-pleasurable", but you need to know when to stop and what areas to concentrate on to avoid premature ejaculation, be creative, learn how to avoid the happy ending before it's proper time and place.
The female orgasm is not an object to be found. It is a release of tension and a feeling of pleasure that is experienced.

Answer
Stimulate the G-spot.
You don't orgasm because of what you see or think of. That gives you a turn-on. The reason you get orgasm is because of the feeling you get of having sex or masturbating.

== Answer == while having sex, try playing with your clitoris and just enjoy it. if you stress too much about having an orgasm, it wont happen. Answer == I'm a female so I just get relaxed in a bathtub with a shower head you can take off its stand, lay down and put your shower head on high or low (whatever you think would feel the best) and spray water into your vagina and find your g-spot. when you do just relax and let yourself go. LAY THERE, IF YOU GET UP TOO SOON YOU'LL FEEL A TIGHTNESS IN YOU STOMACH AND IT DOESN'T FEEL TOO GREAT. == Answer == There's always a first time. Make sure you have privacy. Relax and abandon your imagination to your wildest erotic fantasies. Start by fondling your breasts, then very gradually move down to your clitoris. Assuming that by now it's very moist, rub it - at first gently, then perhaps a shade more energetically. IF all goes well, there should be a build-up to wild excitement. It becomes almost unbearable; you feel you're crossing a threshold and you explode into release. Good luck!
== Answer == The clitoris is the most sensative areas and will bring her to climax. There is also a g spot located 3-4 inches in side her, apply pressure toward her stomach, while inside her. You sitting up with her on top helps, so does putting a couple of pillows underneath her while your on top. Hope this helps. If women would talk to us we would'nt have to ask!!
Yes
Yes.
A girl came make herself have an orgasm by touching their pussy or thinking about sex really really hard and imagine that it is real.
For a girl, rub the clitoris. when you feel that feeling, rub it harder, faster till you feel that your getting to your climax. Once you know you got it, use two or more fingers and put it in your vagina and go deeper till you feel.

I hump a really big pillow while watching porn. It works!
For a girl, rub the clitoris. when you feel that feeling, rub it harder, faster till you feel that your getting to your climax. Once you know you got it, use two or more fingers and put it in your vagina and go deeper till you feel.

I hump a really big pillow while watching porn. It works!
Orgasm is the result of masturbating. When you masturbate, you constantly rub your pubes (girls=vagina boys=penis) and think of (sexual) things that make your pubes "vibrate" or move. When you do it for an amount of time (depends on each person) you have orgasm when your pubes move uncontrollably and you have quenched the desire for sex for your body.
A: that is true. but when a guy has an erection into the vag. then things get spicy and guys tend to eat 'em up! :)

Not everything works for every person, so try different things until you figure out what works for you. If you have never had one before it may be difficult to figure out what you are looking for. Generally, the muscles in the abdomen and legs will tense or twitch. You may feel like you need to pee or you may sweat a lot. If you are having a man do it for you, it is good to give direction until he does something that feels good to you. Many women enjoy receiving oral. If you can find a man who is open to giving it, it's definitely something you need to experience. ;]
Masturbate or have sex.
Girls get orgasms by touching themselves in there clot and vagina hit your spot and it is brill. I have only orgy once but it was nice. Well once as far as i am aware
If theY are Romanian
You 1) stick your tongue on her clit and 2) bang her till she screams! Then you have acomplished your goal :)
Either you have sex or fool around, or finger her. or anything around those lines
Every female is different. One thing they seem to have in common, is that they need both mental and physical stimulation to even be turned on. One word I cant stress enough is FOREPLAY . Touching, kissing, licking etc. Take your time. Also, most females cant reach orgasm through insertion alone. They need clitoral stimulation whether its by a partner or themselves. They also need to be comfortable, which is the whole mental thing. As you get to know each other, your chances of her achieving orgasm will increase. Good Luck!

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Woman Orgasms
Here Are 3 Other Secrets About Woman Orgasms
Women You Might Not Know...
Your Women Will Never Tell You If You Are Bad In Bed!
Here's another honest confession - while we'll complain for hours to our GirlFriendss about how clumsy and clueless you are in the bedroom... we will never, ever, EVER tell you!
Why? Well we know guys have fragile egos, so we'll usually rather put up with "average" sex than tell you and risk hurting your feelings. After all, we can always just fake like we are enjoying it.
This can create another problem though... you see... you probably already know that girls "fake it" all the time.
The problem this causes is that since a girl won't ever tell a guy he sucks in bed, but she WILL fake an orgasm - and very convincingly! A lot guys never know that they are doing anything wrong.
Some guys are even fooled into thinking that they are "good"!
When in reality... the woman is lying there wishing she was with someone who really knew how to make her cum ... so she wouldn't have to fake it.
So the moral of the story is that many guys who are bad in bed don't know it! If you hear a guy bragging about how he rocked his girl's world in the bedroom... don't always believe him!
If You Give Your Woman Orgasms, She Will Never Leave You...
Unlike men, we women are NOT interested in having a variety of sexual partners.
So... when we find a guy who is GREAT in bed, we know we've found something RARE.
We'll never even look at another man.
Guys who have these skills can basically do WHATEVER THEY WANT and a girl will stick with them.
Have you ever heard about a girl who is with a total jerk... but she just won't break up with him?
It's almost ALWAYS because he's great in bed, no lie.
It's the only surefire way to CHEAT-PROOF your relationship, and keep a woman interested in you and only you for as long as you desire.
When You Give Your Woman Orgasms, She Becomes Sexually Addicted To You!
Yes, you read that right! Here's why:
We LOVE sex. If you need proof of this, think about how loudly we scream when we're getting off! Those aren't screams of pain you know =)
But... 99% of men are TERRIBLE in bed
Because of this, it is very RARE that we get to have great sex
So when we do find a man who can give it to us... WE WANT TO DO HIM ALL THE TIME!
I'm sure you've heard of couples who have sex 3 or more times a day. Well in most cases... it's ladies who are initiating it!
It's because They love it... and when we are lucky enough to find the rare man who knows how to give those amazing orgasms they crave...
Relax and stimulate your clitoris or penis and fantasize. (Women often begin by gently stimulating their breasts).
Focus on your fantasies and keep them alive, as having an orgasm is NOT a purely physical matter.
Arousal and excitement should build up to the point where they involve growing tension which for a second or so becomes almost unbearable.
It peaks, you seem to go over over a threshold and the tension explodes into intensely pleasurable release.
There is often something ecstatic about a really powerful orgasm.
'Orgasm' is the term for the climax, 'crossing the threshold' and the release that follows. The basic elements of orgasm are the same for both sexes: arousal - almost unbearable 'tension' - climax - release.
Men usually ejaculate during release but with women this is much less common (and not necessary).


To have an orgasm (this is for women), use your middle finger on the hand you write with.
Move down from the belly-button, and when you feel the "bump", the long one right above your vagina, gently circle it.
For most it takes around 5-10 minutes to climax or orgasm.


For a man, to reach an orgasm yourself, you hold your erect penis like a football. You move your hand up and down grasping your penis.
You foreskin should move.
Fantasize while you are doing this and it will happen faster.
When you start feeling the sensation, do it faster, you will soon reach an orgasm state and sperm will then come out.
Don't do these when you need to have a pee, it takes longer if there is pee in you system.
Urinate before you start.
Also, occasionally, you may wet yourself with the tension. Have fun!

One way is to take your penis and your hands, and rub your penis with both hands from the sides of your penis. (left and right sides).
In a man's case you have to grip the penis and rub or masturbate.

Mistakes women make.


You see a lot of articles about what men can do during sex to make it better for the woman, but there’s a lot less information – and opinion – on the mistakes women make. So, to set the record straight, here’s our list of ten things for women to avoid.
1 Expecting him to think like a woman
We’ve all seen loads of books with titles like “Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus” which highlight an unfortunate difference between the sexes. Men and women don’t think the same way – and while we’re not going to get into why this happens, it’s important to remember that fact when you’re in a relationship. In general, men are not as romantic as women, they don’t see romance as a necessary prelude to sex, and they can divorce sex from their feelings in a way that perhaps most women can’t. So there will be plenty of times when a man wants sex even if he isn’t feeling romantic and connected to his partner.
For him, the physical pleasure of sex is a reward in itself. He doesn’t need to be seduced into feeling desire (though he may appreciate it if you do seduce him!), at least most of the time, for his sex drive is a pretty constant part of his maleness. I think that’s what women don’t understand.
They know how elusive and emotional their own sex drive is, but they don’t appreciate how different it is for a man. Think of it this way: men can enjoy sex with their partner whether they are feeling loving or not; in fact they often find their feelings of love for their partner when they have sex with her. By contrast, women often say they need to feel loving before they want sex – or at least before they are prepared to give themselves heart and soul to a man.
2 Not showing your sexual energy
Women who were brought up to be demure “good girls” (i.e. non-sexual) may find it difficult to express the essence of their feminine energy during sex. And a lot of women also have problems expressing their anger, an emotion which can add real spice to the sexual union between men and women. This lack of sexual energy might appear as a reluctance to initiate sex, a reluctance to be the active partner, a reluctance to make noises or thrust, or simply an overall tendency to wait for the man to lead and direct what happens during sex.
But believe me, ladies, your man will really like it when you express your passion – whether that means you getting on top for woman on top sex, moving in a way that will give you the greatest pleasure, kissing him passionately, or being assertive about what you want in bed.
3 Being too gentle when you touch his penis
Men like a firmer touch than women, especially when it comes to their penises. If you ever have the pleasure of watching him masturbate, you’ll see how much pressure he uses on his penis – especially as he nears orgasm. If you’re doing it for him, ask him to tell you what you’re doing right and what he’d like done differently. He’ll really appreciate your efforts to give him more pleasure.
4 Not experimenting with sex
The saying has it that men think about sex ten times an hour – or is it a hundred? Yes, of course that’s an exaggeration, but it isn’t much of one. While some women have a high sexual desire, it’s true to say that women in general are much less sexy than men when they’re not in the bedroom. Men fantasize all the time – about the things they see, what they’d like to do, how they’d like to do it, and so on. With such an active sexual imagination, it’s not hard to understand why a bit of variation in the bedroom routine can keep a man sexually happy.
It doesn’t have to be way out stuff like bondage, either. For example, try changing sex positions once in a while: take the initiative and get on top of him or let him enjoy rear entry for a change. Talk dirty to him if you’ve never tried that before; explore and play with new parts of his body, such as his anus and perineum, during foreplay – or even during the main event. Seduce him into a “quickie” by leaving a trail of clothes across the floor into the bedroom. Greet him at the door in sexy clothing. Phone him at work and tell him what you’d like to do to him later that day…..well, you get the idea – use your imagination!
5 Expecting him to read your mind
Yes, we know it’s difficult to express your sexual desires directly. But men don’t think like women. They don’t read clues, they don’t get hints. So stop communicating indirectly, and tell him what you want. And give him feedback when you get it! That way, he’ll know exactly what he’s supposed to be doing, how you feel about it, and whether to do it again. For example, if you like what he’s doing during sex, let him know with your moans of pleasure.
6 Criticizing him
I think one of the reasons women can be so critical of their man is that they’ve never learned the art of direct communication. Than means stating clearly and directly what you want, how you want it, and whether you got it – and how you feel about it afterwards. Men appreciate that style of talk – they know where they stand and it removes the uncertainty for them.
Criticism is an indirect way of saying that your needs are not being met – but if you read number 5 above, then maybe you’ve begun to understand that your man won’t know what you want unless you tell him. If you’re judging his love for you on the basis of his ability to anticipate and meet your needs without you saying what they are, well, I’m afraid you aren’t likely to be very satisfied. And it won’t be his fault.
7 Letting him take responsibility for your orgasm
A lot of us think that a man somehow has a responsibility to “give” a woman an orgasm during sex. After all, that’s how a lot of us were brought up – that a man somehow has to look after “his” woman. And that idea extends to making sure she has an orgasm during sex…..but the truth is that women are responsible for their own orgasms. So while it might be nice for your man to help you get there, if you don’t make it to orgasm through his efforts, you can always take matters into your own hands.
8 Controlling him by withdrawing sex
One of the most unhealthy things you can do in a relationship is to use sex as a weapon. This is basically a statement that you feel powerless, that you think withholding sex is the only way you can get what you want. Rather than trying to exert some influence over your man by denying him the pleasure of your body, try communicating directly what you want and don’t want. (That might even extend to simply saying you don’t feel emotionally close enough to your partner to want sex.)
9 Thinking he’ll feel the same way about your body that you do
It just isn’t so. Men don’t attach the judgments to women’s bodies that women do. So, for example, even if he thinks your butt really is a bit on the large side, it won’t matter to him the way it matters to you. In fact, he probably quite likes it. And he certainly won’t be put off making love, or want the lights off, because of it. While you waste time and emotional energy wondering if you’re completely undesirable because of some aspect of your body, he’ll never give it a second thought. It’s women who judge their bodies, I think for the sake of comparison with other women, not men.
10 Not making up with sex after an argument
Well, yes, I know that a lot of couples do make up with sex when they’ve had an argument, but in fact many more don’t. As I said above, most women think that they need to be feeling loving and emotionally close before they want sex. Yet I’ve met a lot of couples in my work as a sexual therapist who have found that taking the risk and jumping into bed can work really well as a way of getting close again.
Even if you don’t feel sexy or loving when you start making love, after a while the simple act of being physically connected in bed can really change the way you feel about each other. The other way of settling an argument (that’s talking, seeking understanding, and thrashing out how you feel) is fine: but once in a while try a more direct method of getting your feelings back on track – just go to bed together!

Can I find my true love on the net in a few days?


A:
(I'm using "he" as in "he, the partner" here: sex-neutrally.)
If you understand the question as
"Is it possible to fall in love with someone you've never met, except online?"
The answer to this is "Yes, but this someone is a figment of your imagination.
Even if your partner was absolutely honest, there are a lot of things that can't be transmitted via text or even webcams.
So of necessity, your brain supplies the missing information, and since you're looking for a partner, this information will be affirmative.
This doesn't even include simple misunderstandings.
And the simple fact that you fell in love so quickly is a good indication that he was lying.
If you like things the way they are, tell your partner you don't want a real-life relationship.
He'll either dissolve, or you can continue dreaming.
Still, there's a chance he wasn't lying and that he moreover actually corresponds to your idea of him. So check.
But don't compromise on security issues like the dating place. If necessary tell him bluntly there's no particular reason for you to trust him, or for him to trust you, since anyone can say anything on the net. Assume a worst-case scenario."

But now on to the original question:
Can I find my true love on the net in a few days?
Of course.
Actually, you may even find your true love by opening a telephone book and blindly pointing at some name, in just 5 secs!
But seriously, I think the net is great for first-stage dating, especially for shy people or people who aren't the norm.
(Dis)advantages of the net: (let's list the disadvantages first)
-slow speed and narrow scope of communication: no body language, no facial expressions,
no pheromones, no body odor, no intonation, no pronunciation,...
-unknown or sketchy outer appearance: no photos; fake, old or "corrected" photos;
Even good and true photos don't really tell you how a person REALLY looks like in real life.
-no variety in settings: you can't learn how he behaves towards other people or in different situations. You can only learn how he behaves when he's on the look-out for a partner.
-you might find your true love - but you and him live far apart, so one will need to uproot the other.
-The net facilitates lying, for reasons seen above. So you could waste a lot of time on some fake. (to facilitate = to make easier)
Advantages:
-The net facilitates lying: This means liars are likely to make some stupid mistake that will become apparent on the very first date in real life!
You COULD be wasting time on a fake - so don't. As soon as you think the person is likely "partner material" if he is honest, date him in real life.
-The net facilitates honesty/openness: especially in the anonymous stage, you can be a lot more open than you ever would on a first or even third date. Beware however of hunters for blackmail material. Don't disclose anything that could seriously hurt you..
There is no censure by society: for example if you want someone rich, you can say so.
No society-induced hypocracy unless you want it.
-Many, many more people are going to see your profile than you could ever meet with the same degree of information in real life!
This is especially important if you have uncommon demands on a relationship most wouldn't agree to or defects most wouldn't tolerate.
-Someone you've met on the net will likely be a stranger to your circle of friends, so if things don't work out, you probably will never see him again; no awkward situations at parties etc.
-Pre-Selection: the people who contact you or whom you contact ARE looking for a relationship. No need to think of some way to find out if he's available and may be interested in you, possibly harassing him or making a desparate impression.
-Rejections are a lot easier to take, since far less personal. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.


Basic rules:
- there ARE sharks roaming the net, so take care, especially if you're the trusting kind or easily intimidated or bad at defense or easily duped. Log your chats and study them. Don't go on a first date without backup precautions. Things are no different in real life except that sharks are harder to unmask there.
Still, the majority aren't sharks.
- Be serious, unless you just want to fool around. Don't joke and don't use irony unless it's obvious even to a complete stranger that it IS a joke/irony. And don't indicate something as a joke if it isn't. Tell your chat partner to do likewise.
- Study your chat logs for possible misunderstandings. Clear them up.
- read the "Tips"-section of your dating site and others for more specific and more comprehensive advice.
Regard all tips critically, including these. They are always generic of necessity, and some have commercial interests as a background.
- Don't be shy to show mistrust and don't be offended if it's shown to you, just find a mutually acceptable solution that will kill it (or at least defuse it) on both sides on the first date.

My Answer


Dating is said to be an art. Some people are in it for the intimacy and some for the romance. A relationship depends on the comparability of both people. Many can make do with a single online chat once in two days and many need phone calls after every hour.

Foreplay is your open doorway to sex,


So you found a lady that fills your mind and heart with desire. You dream of your intimate relations with her, but how to begin? Foreplay is your open doorway to sex, but you must know how, when, and what to do in foreplay.
If you think foreplay is just some casual kissing, think again. You are way off the mark. Foreplay begins with conversation, and a woman is receptive far beyond what any man might believe. Foreplay is your option of filling her heart with the same desire you have.
When Does Foreplay Begin? Stimuli to the Five Senses
Foreplay begins, if you are ready to understand it, with your first contact. You must always arrive to your lady with flowers.
These flowers, roses particularly, must have a delicate, sweet, and lasting aroma. She will smell them, and her senses become far more acute than you might imagine. Ladies will always smell the flowers you bring them
Try to touch her hand as you give the flowers…some light and gentle stroke. This will be the first stimulus to her sense of touch. As you give the flowers, compliment her on her looks and this will be the first stimulus to her sense of hearing.
Look into her eyes as you compliment her, and the sense of sight is filled with your sincere glance, and if you are good at this kind of thing, a longing desire.
We are left with the sense of taste. If you are taking her out to diner, you will have a great opportunity to please her. If not, there is always candy or try and get her to drink some wine.
More Serious Stimulations
If foreplay has begun from the first contact with your lady they continue on as you become intimate. Learn where are her erogenous zones (slightly different for each woman), and go for these areas. That means light and delicate stroking, kissing and nuzzling these areas.
As a general rule the shoulder, near the nape of the neck is a great area to start. Kissing on the mouth is serious stimulation, and good foreplay, but let that be a bit later, Kiss her on the inside of the forearm, near the inside of the elbow. While you are kissing her, also remind her how beautiful she is (more aural stimulation), and if you can, keep some eye contact.
If you find yourselves now undressed, you must remember that kissing on the obvious areas; the breasts and genital zone, will bring greater results if you move there slowly, and tease before you arrive.
Kiss the inside of the thighs, about 15 cm from the knees, and even on the lower leg are great nerves to stimulate. The back of the calf is full of nerve endings…kiss and stoke there too.
Move to the breasts. If your lady has large breasts, with a large nipple area, you might use more of a kissing-sucking combination. If she has smaller breasts with girlish nipples, you can kiss and lightly bite the areas (do not cause any pain in any way during foreplay).
Use your tongue and go in clockwise circles around the nipple. You can slightly blow also some cool air on the nipple after sucking and kissing it.
Continue kissing as you arrive near to, but not on the genital area. Kiss and stroke around it, near to it, but do not touch it.
The most serious part of foreplay can be cunnilingus, which is the subject of several articles in their own right.

Bangalore Girl Friends Experience ">Indian Lesbian Confessions


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I used to read many stories and mastrubate on my own, i am going to narrate a story which happens in my real life one week before. My brother is working in MNC Chennai we are staying in Chennai my brother need to go US official last week so he went, I am working in am BPO as Team Manager so i used to go night shift and used to sleep in morning.

This incident happened two days before, in my home my father mother, my brother, Anni and me My Anni is very fair,face looks like Kajol actress , 36,28,36 house wife and she is just 23 age and slim, my self 28 and medium slim, my father and mother went to native place for a week so we both are alone in home. Once I came from night shift my anni used to give me horlicks and used to freshup I taken bath and drink it and will goto sleep then she will wake me up to have tiffen.

There is not water flow in my brother’s bedroom so she is not able to take bath, she tried to wake me i was in half sleep she asked me whether water is comming in my bath room I said yes in half sleep and slept she went to take bath in my bathroom, once she finished her bath she came out in towel its really a nice smell hence I am in half sleep I can still remember her hamam soap smell which wakes me up,

I saw in half eye that she went to her room in towel i am gone seeing her in towel hence its my weekend off that evening I am in home only my self and my anni in home she have the habit of taking bath in night before sleep even i have the same habit i taken bath and slept she said shall I use my bathroom I said no need ask any permission anni use it, once again she came in a towel with like a fresh baby

I act like I am in sleep she started wiping herself in my room itself thinking I am slept, I am watching her acting like sleeping, suddenly her towel felt down accidentally I can see her full back like a flash and half breast she turned to catch her towel she saw me i am wake she is stunned even i dont know what to do she went to her room taking her towel.

Next day morning is also my off its sunday she is not able to c my eyes she gave me horlicks I drank she has not taken bath i said Anni I am sorry for yesterday i don’t know you are there thats why I saw you, she said its k, I said anni even i like you so much she tries to went out i cought her hand and hugged her she restricted and turned i huged her from behind she said aravind its wrong please leave me I am your brother wife if he came to know it will be big problem, i said anni please i like you lot u r my angel today is a nice chance anni please allow me lets enjoy, she shouted at me and tries to pull me to bed i pulled her along with me and felt on bed she tried to get up from bed i rolled and came on top of her,

Hence no one is in home all rooms are closed I droped her down in bed and started to kiss her neck ( neck is a powerful area af all female ) she is restricting me pushing me away but I am strong to have her below me she said aravind its not fair i am your Anni please leave me I said I love you Anni and start removing her saree, she is shuting but not louder telling please dont make me to shout neighbors will come please leave me

I said i need u anni and started kissing her lips she closed her lip and not opened i allowed my tounge to lick her lip she is turning her face left and right at the same time i started pumping her with her saree and started pressing her breast she is loosing control then she understand that i am not going to leave her she shouted k aravind listen to me i stoped but I am in top of her she said I will allow you but you should not enter in to me and not now first fresh up then we will have I thought its better then I hugged Anni and said i love you she said why aravind u have this much lust on me I said from the day i saw you i started thinking you and masturbating she said I will allow you but please maintain secret i said i am sure.

Then i taken bath she went to take bath and came in towel she know i will get her now she came out of bathroom i grabbed her and droped in bed and started kissing her neck she closed her eyes and said aravind we are doing wrong its a sin please dont do i said anni i love u a lot saying that i removed her towel she is not wearing any thing inside towel i started fondling her breast and kissing her lips first she closed her lips later she started responding i am only in shorts she also started to hug me and pnching me with nail i understand she is in full mood i removed her towel completely she is in full nude now wow how beaty she is she looks like angel i started kissing her breast and sucking it like mangoes

She is out of control allow me to enjoy her full breast by raising her breast i sucked bot mellons like anything she is pressing my head hard in her breast I went some what down and kissed her thopple and then went down to pussy area she is having a pubic hair i inserted my mouth and started to suck she is raising her butt to show have her complete pussy

I inserted my tongue and liked it she is moaning ahhhhhh iss ahh aravind ohhhh make lot of moaning noice i removed my shorts and my cock came out she immediately got up and said aravind please don’t u enjoy me with out entering in to me I know i can seduce her i said k and felt over her we both are stark nude i am rolling her in bed she also started kissing me we had a long lip to lip kiss very passionate kiss then i inserted my finger in to her love hole and started finger fucking she is out of control

I saw she closed her eyes and enjoying I stopped she is still closing her eyes I inserted my cock in to her she suddenly opened her eveys and said aravind please dont it’s a sin I said Anni what we did till now is also a sin don’t worry. I gave a thrust my cock went in she is telling I am your anni da like mother I said i love you Anni and started jerking.

She is moaning aravind please remove it please I never cared I started doing fast she is also started responding for my jerk she is raising her hip up when ever I gave her a jerk I started doing very fast to and fro room full of chap chap chap chap sound she is hugging me very tight she came after 20min. of hard work she said please dont leave inside me I am out of control with in few jerks I also came inside her she hugged me very tight we sept like that nude for one hour

Then she waked up and we both seperated she started she did a sin to my brother I said its ok if any thing is with four wall its not a sin I hugged her she also hugged me then we both went for anouther three rounds that day and also continued in night then we are having regular sex till today.



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